We live in a world today that not only goes through mountains of physical pain, but one that continues the battle of the pain of a few simple words. Today, a person crossed my path who swore up and down that someone betrayed them, in a sense, to which they are having to face consequences.. I don't feel bad for them. At all.
I truly believe that there a lot of problems that we face in today's society that we bring upon ourselves. Whether we think we do or not. There are those who are older and wiser, and of course with age comes wisdom.. I don't care if you're out there judging me because I'm young, because I had child out of wedlock, or I have 2 children before age 25.. Even if you are though, where did it come from that you or I have a say in how someone chooses to live their life?
Girls talk, guys talk, people say things they mean, things they don't. However, words can hurt. Yet my point is to say that some of us learn to GROW UP, while others choose to pick a part those around us just to feel better about ourselves.
Can someone please explain that to me? Because I don't understand it.
I do what I can to avoid gossip, to stay away from those who create this environment where you feel like you need to walk on eggshells, or where you're afraid to be who you are just because someone may say something bad about you.
Ask people I surround myself around, ask people I work with, ask my family, well most of my family ( we all have our issues but still), I am a genuinely happy and positive person.
It's not easy removing yourself from those who bring you down, but trust me the second that you get that "crap" out of your life, you'll be genuinely happy, and that I can promise.
"Not everyone is meant to be on the red carpet beside you."
I hate to say it, but some people just aren't meant to make it to the red carpet, because they haven't chosen to grow up.
Do yourself a favor. Look in the mirror and all that bad stuff that you're picking apart in other people, it's what you're not recognizing in yourself.
Don't get me wrong, I am guilty of doing the above. But I have grown up, and I have learned that there are things better left unsaid. I have also chosen the path of "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it."
I just hope others are ready to do the same.
Too many people are being hurt, because others aren't being real.
So if you don't like "fake people" stop being one.
You'll be surprised how many great people you will meet, that are real.
